Learning To Drive

5/21/18 I know I’ve been quiet for a while now. A lot of changes have happened and continue to happen. For starters, I’ve moved into an adorable converted carriage house in east Dallas. It’s just me, a new sofa (delivered tomorrow), the cat (and a couple of outdoor kitties who’ve taken a shine to me), and my future, whatever that holds. Several years ago, I heard a statement that resonated so strongly with me, it became a mile marker in my life. I used it as a parenting tool as well as a self-help mantra. “What you focus on expands.” It seems so simple, and it is. But recently the power of this phrase, and its deeper meaning has come to me on a new level. It’s moved me to my core. It’s another mile marker. This will come as no surprise to those who know me, but I was a very imagination-driven, romantically-inclined, book-loving child.   Every summer, empty backpack in tow, I’d ride my bike to the library and vow to “read them all”.   (I still hold this vow,